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Thursday, June 5, 2008

Ten things a woman wants from their husbands:

Ten things a woman wants from their husbands:

1. Telling her daily that she is loved - Everyone needs to be affirmed. Everyone needs to know they are loved. The best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug or holding hands when you walk together.

2. Understanding & forgiveness - There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.

3. Conversation - Don't let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing but talk about your kids, your jobs, and the weather. If that happens, your marriage relationship could be in real trouble.

4. Willingness to make time for her & your children - Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.

5. Saying "yes" more than saying "NO" - Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying "yes" can improve your relationships.

6. Listening Well - It's really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants and needs you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.

7. Affection & Kindness - How often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.

8. Sharing Household & child rearing responsiblities - One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.

9. A Day Off Now & Then - Give your wife a day off several times a month. This means that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She not only deserves this break in her schedule, she needs it to be emotionally and physically healthy.

10. Commitment to take care of yourself Both Physically & Emotionally - Many men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it comes to health issues. This isn't fair to your wife. She is your lover not your mother. Take responsibility for your own health concerns.

Source: about.com

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BB Jae growing-Oct to Jun

30Oct07 - born@ KKH @ 1pm

01Nov07 - discharge frm KKH, keep crying for sometime as still hungry.

24Nov07 - Full mth celebration

09Dec07 - BB had her first colic, so pitiful, bring her to NUH & was being prescribe 'get rid'solution

13Dec07 - BB had another colic

17Dec07 - BB refused milk & throw up thrice bt after giving her 'get rid' solution, she is fine again.

24Dec07 - BB had colic again.Finally bought her a pigeon wide neck milk bottle which say it has block wind function.

02Feb08 - BB had her 1st immune vaccine & she is handling well, no much crying... ...no fever, no cranky. given her some 'pao shen'water b4 going for jab. &
1st CNY with family, get to go out only in the afternoon as need to let her hv enuff nap Managed to get to a few relative place. Uncle Shane birthday on 1st day of CNY. Had Colic

Mar08- BB 2nd vaccine jab - the same, no much crying juz 1 scream when needle poke in...given her some 'pao shen'water b4 going for jab.BB 3rd vaccine jab - Same as all above.:) bt of course gt abit of discomfort.

May08-BB 4th & last immue jab as we opt for 6in1 jab...to lessen the torture...haha!!!Ah ma let me to hv my 1st taste of chicken...nt too gd...haha!

Jun08 - Had her 1st rice cereal. Finally bought a walker. start to mix mashed pumpkin with rice cereal. Bought Heinz veggies & fruit juice for trying, she didnt like it & i feel is better to give naural juice.

Start to blabbing 'ma ma' & 'pa pa'. Start to feed BB jae some brown rice cereals.

hair cut by daddy on full mth celebration

hair cut by daddy on full mth celebration

steadily in stroller

steadily in stroller

Mummi's effort: Hand sewn bloster for my BB

Mummi's effort: Hand sewn bloster for my BB